happiness is not guaranteed. Life is a process

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From thinking about how to \History from their own point of view, it continued to mature from one immature, originally from an original state of natural process of human development of society, through its own observation of the community through action learning to think and to promote the health development. Psychological counseling has been increasingly familiar and identity. Professional development aim at doing this as a member of the paper was self-growth analysis, and professional behavior analysis. Personal growth experience through the analysis, personality analysis, the analysis of life; explained the reasons for engaging in psychological work and life goals. In the analysis of professional conduct, recognized as a qualified psychologist,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], psychological counseling not only has the expertise and skills, but also need to continue to self-understanding, self-adjustment, improve the ability of self and society also have a more in-depth understanding and knowledge, and only have the ability to more in-depth understanding of the knowledge to help visitors and more deeply understand the value of psychological consultation, psychological counseling to work more firmly in the confidence and determination.

Key words: growth experience, self-analysis, job analysis

of self-growth

one course of my life

(1) happy childhood - the child king

I was born in the mountains, a mining family. Childhood, until three days before graduation I was in the mountains of children. I was able to become king of the children, not because I fight bad, but because between each other children will have trouble running to me to judge, and I determine who is right based on the actual situation of the two sides. I often take the other children playing in the mountains, there am I happy childhood.

(2) student days - to do a backbone of the Chinese people

\At that time I do not understand what this sentence means teacher. Always thought the teacher was talking about his thin, bone hard now! But I know it is a recognition of words, so the whole process of growing I always remember this sentence: \Whenever I think of this sentence, heart full of sunshine.

became a junior high school after a Wu Han's \In particular, a lot of learning to write the article after Lu Xun, so I better understand what kind of talent is the true sense of the people, they have to be what kind of person, be a thinking person. Since then, I always do a backbone of the Chinese people and spur their own standards. Although the first time in 17 years, but then leaves the teacher's words will certainly affect my life, including now and then, but also to more clearly what they need, what kind of person should be, so I have this spur their own.

1997 Year summer, I took from a small town to the Third Sister will be the city of Nanchang in Jiangxi Province where his brother played half a month of work. See the home and the economic gap between the capital cities, I thought: \No tall? Whether her family background? No,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the people's ideas, thoughts. Concept, the position of decision.

class on the third day there was a girl crying in the classroom door, I asked her: \Why is that? \someone else. \It made me realize the people's minds, the importance of the concept, as Lu Xun from medicine, is to save the human soul.

high school I was thinking: \live, some people pursue their own ideals in the ongoing efforts and hard work; some people regret for wasted years, and some people happy and substantial through the day. This requires us to give your life a meaning.

(3) onto the road of psychological counseling - want to do a good psychologist

major during college is the application of psychology. Especially for the \After a period of deliberation, I finally decided to apply what they learn, choose a professional capacity development. So freshman year college, I have participated in faculty, student unions, professional associations sophomore transfer Psychological Counseling Association, Association for Psychological Consultation junior year as president, and in July 2004 to participate in national levels, teacher training, psychological counseling, 2004 December through the National Qualification Examination for three consultants, from February 2005 in southern Jiangxi Normal College Counseling Center as a Counselor and member of the class mental health counselors.

before graduation, faced with life choices, I am also thinking about where their own meaning of life? Go from here? How to achieve their life values. What is his pursuit of what? Money? Reputation? Graduation Ganzhou I chose to prison practice, when I looked at the prison which both of them full of infinite desire for knowledge, eyes, then I do not know what to say,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I wonder why people would be a crime? Are these people really are so terrible? Heinous it? No, I think the vast majority of people at the time of the crime, but is thought to transfer, rather than nature of the problem is psychological problems, very little people really wicked.

dare to look bleak life, dare to look into the dripping blood. Face full of an impetuous, many people still not entirely wishful society, I wonder, how might start to change this society we can not change a thing, but what can go do their own. I wonder if I can continue to Lu Xun's behest.

Today, I became a middle school mental health education teacher, I also determined from teaching for life, committed to primary and secondary mental health education and counseling will be my lifelong career pursuit. Lu Xun said, from medicine to save the human soul, and teachers are engineers of human souls, for our workers is the soul of mental engineers. As a mental workers, we are healthy, happy, happy carriers. After more than four years of work with a lot of consultation cases communication with parents, I have gradually formed \a very worthy cause, which further strengthened my confidence in the work in psychology and determination.

Second, the personality type descriptions

by Eysenck Personality Questionnaire temperament test and test, draw a conclusion that is more sanguine, phlegmatic mixed type, emotional stability, able to explain my personal view that the personality characteristics.

specific explanation as follows: 1, internal and external to the (E of 60 points) for the export-oriented, performance of easy-going man, optimistic, confident, sociable, like to talk and laugh, like to communicate with people, preferring action rather than quiet, like to do some actual work. Outside of work like some exciting outdoor sports, such as hiking, camping, swimming, boating, skating and so on. 2, N is divided into 30 points, emotional stability is, emotional reactions slow, even if the emotions aroused soon be able to calm down. Emotion is usually calm, even if gas is a controlled-sheng, and not feel nervous. 3, P is divided into 40 points, lively personality, is not easy to get angry, easy to get along with others, can better adapt to the environment, do not do extreme things, people doing things and strive to secure.

personality type of self-described as: likes the simple life, enjoy interacting with people, demanding their own, others point of view to fully stand on the issue. People doing things stable, emotionally stable, sociable. I think they have five good quality are: sincere, strong, optimistic, honest, strong sense of responsibility.

the blind spot of self-judgment of personality type is: Sometimes a little patience would be more anxious and lack a certain degree of patience.

others on my assessment is: sincere, understanding, caring and feelings, integrity, is a suitable person to make friends.

three, my outlook on life:

my attitude to life in the face of life, we do not have to complain about anything, and only continue to work hard, struggle, struggle! Because I believe that everyone has a positive (good) heart. Are among the most active social factors of production, if we can put people's inner potential fully mobilized, will be able to create an immeasurable wealth. But first we have to figure out what we need, what needs to be a kind of person, how to meet their own needs. And then toward their goals in life direction, do your best, then no regrets, I think this is the most wonderful life! For me, health, happiness, freedom, happy life that I seek. Without a healthy life, others joy, freedom, happiness is not guaranteed. Life is a process, the key is that the process we enjoy health, happiness, freedom, happiness. In our pursuit of happiness, we just need to follow a principle of not freely violate the legal rights and interests. This is the basic spirit of the law given. Finally, to clear live in the moment, through the actions to change everything. Change we can change and accept we can not change. Institute of peace with life, the same as Maslow's words: heart, if changed, along with changes in your attitude; attitude change, your habits; habits, change your character to follow; personality changes, along with changes in your life . Thanksgiving in the good times, still feel joy in the face of adversity, seriously live in the moment, truly live in today.

four, my personal goal of what?

My goals are: learning by counselors and daily professional knowledge, practice operations, to be a good high school psychology teachers and professional counselors, hoping one day to open their own psychological work room.

I know to accomplish these goals, but also made great efforts. I feel the need to strengthen the five areas are: 1, to enhance professional learning and enhance professional skills, improve personal accomplishment; 2, enhance self-confidence, and constantly improve their own personality to keep a positive attitude; 3, enhance the work of the planning, effectiveness; 4, to improve their language skills; 5, work a little more patient, calm and truly heart qi, tolerance of others,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], be kind to yourself.

of Professional Conduct

I. Why should I become a psychologist?

had chosen partly because of the curious psychology,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], human psychology is very interesting; the other half by four years of study because we wanted to change some of their bad character. Through four years of professional study and practice,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I found this career counselors make a mental to health and personality tend to sound noble profession, at the same time, it is also a love of helping people with self-love to pass professional help others, but also to help themselves, and can get to promote self-growth and unity. Human psychology is subtle, ever-changing, like life and death, love and hate in a moment. Particularly those engaged in psychological consulting work has been confused to see a picture of praying that the faces are bursting out with self-confident smile, I am more determined to do a qualified psychologist confidence.

Second, I have what conditions can I become a qualified psychologist?

First of all, I think I have become a qualified counselor personality traits: very tolerant, patient, good listener, to make visitors feel that I understand their difficulties, to be honest and sincere and visitors who to talk to, so they are willing to expose inner privacy and secretive, worthy of their trust; with affinity and helpful. Secondly, there is a good self-mediation capacity, timely and properly handle their own psychological conflicts, eliminate the daily interference, thus ensuring the smooth progress of work to help others.

Third, what I am looking forward to their careers?

1, expect the school to give me more confidence and support, certainly the work of our workers, the value of psychological and practical significance.

2, expected to become a good psychologist, through my help so that more callers can be healthy and happy life.

3,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], look forward to setting up its own psychological studio.

four, my professional strengths and weaknesses?

my professional strengths:

1, a good personality, with an open mind to learn, so I can better help others.

2, through four years of university study and professional psychological counseling training a number of occasions to improve my professionalism.

3, through the Student Counseling Center and psychological associations and other professional practice Ganzhou prison and four years of high school practice mental health education and improve my professional practice in counseling skills.

with the campus mental health education work in depth and my own counseling practice, so I am more and more aware of their many deficiencies still exist

1, was going through the university education in psychology, theory of knowledge and expertise but there are some defects, some psychological problems are not seeking help to give a good solution.

2, career counselors in some of the hardware still need improvement. In particular, the lack of a more comprehensive list of various psychological measurement, with related software.

3, his life experience is still relatively simple, has been in the school learning environment, work, little contact with all aspects of society, to understand the various types of problems are not deep.

five, I need to do to prepare to become a good psychologist?

1, further understanding of their own.

fully aware of themselves, of their own in order to better and constantly improve themselves to help others. In life, we all have blind spots, psychologists, counselors, too, we should see to do this work before the visitors. A good consultant should have good self-analysis. We say we are a consultant, first we should clearly know their is a human being, we also will encounter some setbacks, depression and other negative emotions, self-regulation at this time is very important. If we consultants have their own problems without a good self-regulation and how to do \

2, keen powers of observation

In the years of consulting work, I found myself not keen powers of observation, easy to overlook some of the problems, not to find problems, will talk in depth. Work in the future I will strive to improve their powers of observation, because the sharp observation allows us to consult people seeking help in the consultation process through the words and expressions insight into their inner world, from subtle performance that is generally difficult to find in or easy to overlook things, so as to achieve self-help \

3, rich professional knowledge and enhance professional skills
Although he is learning

Applied Psychology origin, but recent work has increasingly feel that their expertise is not enough, the next time should be more emphasis on the theory of knowledge learning, learning more with peers, constantly strive to improve their theoretical level and practical skill.

4, rich social knowledge

in the consultation, we will encounter different cultural environment, experience backgrounds come to us for help. Psychological problems of many people has its own unique nature, the background behind all its various factors. We have to understand the formation of diagnosis, which is far better than to find specific, effective ways to solve out the problem much easier. Because there are a number of factors, psychologists, counselors, and seeking help with the analysis to explore the common face. Just think, if we do not keep abreast of developments in this society, how can we do this advice, those who rely on professional theory and skills is obviously very difficult to accept. We need to analyze specific issues, standing on the point of view the problem seeking help analyze and solve problems. So, I think that as a good counselor is to have a rich social experience and knowledge, as we face is a complex person. Thus, we have to in a timely manner, often concerned about some of the events in society, particularly in this transformation is in the diversity of society.

With the increasing competition in society, particularly the global financial crisis and the severe employment situation,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], social changes and other factors continue to impact on people's minds, many people long in the \effective release, mitigation, along with public awareness of the gradual increase of psychological counseling, psychological counseling has gradually been accepted, more and psychological problems encountered when people began to seek help from professional counselors, the future counselors demand will increase. Psychological reasons and because of various crises will be endless, intensified, will cause the occurrence of various types of problems, the state of national mental health qualities will also be increasing attention and concern will be to vigorously promote the development of mental health, in particular, our youth mental health education. Counselor is both a noble profession, is a difficult industry, long and rugged road ahead. A thousand miles begins with one step, I've done well prepared to strive for life!

References:

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