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I found an interesting phenomenon - turn on the TV, now see the hit play about marital modern, almost all to the theme of extramarital affair. Why? Is marriage the only third party interference emotion, the story of family intervaldown and the like can be performed to attraction the audience's heart?

answer is real and serious, these themes from TV series is actually a reflection of the marital class of today's society. Divorce rate is increasing from year to year can prove it. The affair is one of the main causes of divorce.

So why would so many extramarital affairs, so as a general social trouble? I believe this was produced from the affair began to talk about why:

marriage is a long process, a psychological research data obtained: 80% of marriages are in the process of boring, dull and insipid. Only 20% of the process is full of joy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], passion and excitement. That is two people falling in love to marriage from the honeymoon period (love life) is that 20% of the happy times, and from the end of the honeymoon period of marriage to fulfill our way of life (marriage) is a flat 80% of that period.

are those who like exciting, loved the passion, the pursuit of insolent animals for a long time is a insipid will engender unacceptable, tired of the emotions, and that 80% of the marriage just for the plain of the occurrence of extramarital affairs to supply a breeding shore.

one of the factors that happens is the affair of the marriage becomes more dull, tasteless and boring.

In general, the occurrence of extramarital affairs on both sides of the folloearng three grades:

(1) both serious and sexual love, the re-combistate. Both said the affair of the ideas of both sides because of a complete breakdown of the family affair occurred, is to find another true love, in order to reorganize the family after the divorce occurred extramarital.

(2) both parties are temporary sustenance, sexual callousness. Both said the affair of the parties is not because their family affection affair occurred, only to find sex on the occurrence of fresh and stimulated.

(3) one would like to combine, one temporary and one of sexual love, sexual side ruthless. Both sectionies befactor both parties said the family affair affection and want to look for life characterner again, one is being sought for the sustenance emotional or sexual affair occurred.

above three cases is the main form of an extramarital affair, in which the third largest, the second followed the first at least. In general women are the main affair is to place fresh emotional, while men for sex. Once you find your spouse had an affair, how to do it yourself? The first method is to divorce, and divorce is divided four steps:

(1) Once the divorce immediately because of temper.

(2) through viewful, sensible divorce.

(3) themselves do not want to, but because of pressure from the spouse about a divorce.

(4) against each other, hurt each other after the divorce. If you do not want a divorce

, then you can only choose the second way: tolerance. But tolerance is more painful than divorce, and you'd better be mentally prepared. However, there are two ways to slightly ease the pain:

(1) believe this is good for themselves and their children, I believe this is a moment of confused because the spouse did something wrong, that he (she) will change their mind The.

(2) According to estimates, the couple married for ten years, with 80% of the affair had occured. I believe this is a necessary mode of marriage, I believe that only through a storm of marriage is the most stable. Like the song: \It depends on you and your spouse's attitude. If your spouse still care about you, care about this family, and you care about him (her) then you should foroffer him (her), select tolesized. If he (she) do not care about you, do not care about this family, both his (her) heart has been doly deviated, even if you still love him, choose the tolerance, is useless,new ghd flat iron 49pThe growth rate of female smo, and will not choose divorce, let go of his (her) let go yourself, let go of pain.

I'm still insisting about a question: whether the affair may experience ups and downs and ups and downs of young love in the face like it?