Is love, or rely on

nindscsay · Wysłany: Sob 16:03, 26 Mar 2011 Temat postu: Is love, or rely on

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Hi, friends day? I am a grass-roots. Have you ever had a lot of their own feelings of doubt, if not with positive words to answer some of the other issues can not tell whether this relationship is love [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or dependency. These words do not know whether I said your mind to go, no matter what it! I firmly believe that we have, or are, or will in the future will be loved and dependence haunted, eroding, permeated with, so you and me suffer, black and blue.
this end, in the tangle of love and dependency, how many times we have missed the need to care for the feelings of a lifetime, how many times miss the need to protect the lives of people, how many times have missed your own true love. So what it feels like to love a person, depending on what a person is feeling?
for love, I do not know what it feels like, because I have not talked to a real love, or maybe I know what it feels like, because I have crush on a man, Oh, love is a word I do not know What kind of feeling. For dependence, I seem to have a clear outline of a little bit, but do not know how to use words to express it. There is a saying
how the interpretation of love ---------- love a person, to understand but also to understand, but also thanks to apologize, to admit also error correction, to be understanding and considerate ; is memorable but not forgotten, is tolerant and not condoned, it should not hold hands, not to let go. In my opinion this sentence is not very comprehensive summary, this being only between the two in the church how to get along, how to respect each other with all the action and did not make two people get along with the most basic conditions .
I think that two people get along with the most basic condition is with a sincere heart to trust in the eyes of love each other, not holding any purpose to gain his or her love, this is a deception is means of a shameless, the most sad is that when you use a utility to obtain the other's heart, after certain things, to leave, but you find your true love with each other, the time will bring you the most painful choices. This is pure and selfless love something, please do not put it plated with a layer of worldly things, that love will go bad, smelly black until they are eventually eroded away bacteria, your eyes disappear, as is evaporation of the disappeared in the air as invisible. Leaving only footprints.
love someone, that is, no matter how down and out the other side, the loss of the will in case you are still in his (her) to encourage the support of the accompanying side, until that day.
love someone, that is, whether good or bad the other side of the family conditions, even if the conditions are poles apart with their families, are determined to be and he (she) is truly a lifetime.
love someone, that is, whether the other is alive or dead, are willing to him (her) go on waiting forever tragic.
love a person, is not easily penetrate the commitment to love every detail of daily life, such as, every smile, every time stroking her (his) face, wipe each time for each other , each time washing dishes, shopping partner to accompany each ......
love a person, not rhetoric, no vows, just three words:
What is love? I do not know, I only talk about their own views, I wonder if you agree with me a little bit of view?
depends what? I am afraid we are difficult to distinguish, because the feeling of dependence and love are extremely similar [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or even can be taken as real. However, dependence and love, or essentially different, but we do not know what method of distinction seems to Bale.
course, now I find it difficult to distinguish between these two.
dependence is a mood, or rather that is a kind of emotional sustenance, is the feelings of others, your body reflects in others, it can be said to be a lonely breed out of grief over the pain of a kinds of feelings, such feelings will let you into a false understanding of love [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], No, No, that it is love it! Is actually a kind of psychological emotional sustenance, then why would this feeling as love you? Because you can rely on your lonely heart and Debu in empty, so you have an extra feeling to play a platform for a chance to show their bright spot.
dependence is a constraint, it is bound with you so that you can not easily leave every step, so you do not dare to find their own true love, it is like the relationship between steel and concrete, like a stack of the relationship between paper and staples, like the relationship between gravity and any material, you can not always be bound with a solid first step taken.
dependence is a desire, you desire to own the land does not belong to the person you love who get what you want, but you are wrong, even if she (he) came every day to ask for your help, looking for you to do this do that, find you the truth, which is probably not love, it may just be that he (she) is trust in you, you as their male confidant confidante or treat, this is just a sincere friends feelings, please do not put this feeling misunderstood as love. Also, you do not have the desire from his (her) body, or have the love you want, and I dare say it is only a delusion, because it is impossible to happen, unless there is a miracle.
dependence is a lonely, self-made prison is confined themselves. Is a meaningless display of desire in others, is the savings of many years of emotional expression out in force, there is nothing to be stronger than it was. This is because like most of these rely on love. Regardless of whether we can separate the two kinds of feelings, love and dependence in front of us must hold a cautious attitude towards both.
is love, or rely on, a not very clear answer, and perhaps that is not the answer for me, because so far I only know two of the edge of the mix in there, they see through their nature. They are like the battlefield against the armies, in my body the fierce fighting, and finally tell who is who, and can only see the vague outline of the floor of the blood, that the body was mutilated. They are like distant mountains stood in a couple, can not tell who is who, like the monk lost in the rainforest, do not know to where, like the rose-colored dream girl appears, I do not know where she .
is love, or rely on, perhaps only until after the experience to understand, or maybe after experiencing very difficult to grasp, this is actually a mysterious way the answer, or no answers to be found.